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Sex and Sexuality...What are your teens learning from you?
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Most parents find it difficult to talk directly to their children about sex. And so children are left to pick up attitudes from the way we behave.
What are your teens learning from you?
If there is sex on TV do you:
Change the channel
Laugh and make crude jokes
Comment loudly
Use it as a chance to find out their thoughts on sex and relationships
If you hear that your friend's teenage daughter is pregnant do you:
Warn your own daughter not to get into trouble?
Say that you hope your own daughter would ask you for advice if she needed it?
Say that the girl in question is a slut and deserves what she gets?
If you hear that the teenage son of a friend has got a girl pregnant do you:
Warn your son to stay away from 'girls like that'?
Laugh and imply that he is a 'bit of a lad'?
Remind your own son that the unexpected can happen and it is important to take care of the person you love?
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On 21 March 2009 17:33
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Marjorie
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This section assumes that all young people are heterosexual. Parents need to be thinking about how they respond to LGBT issues, and how they may be assuming that their children are heterosexual. They may not be.
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On 31 March 2009 10:09
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anxiousmum
wrote:
I agree I came on to this website to look for advice regarding sexuality, I am worried that my son is being pressurised by peers to be gay. He is 16 and quite immature, I know I shouldnt of but i checked his MSN chat logs and found that a boy of 17 fancies him and by the looks of things is pressurising him into going out with him. I dont know whether to talk to him or not, if he is gay thats his choice I will still love him but I just feel he is being pushed into it. He only had one girlfriend and that was a few years ago.
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Laugh and make crude jokes about it
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