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Dads talking about sex and relationships

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i-parent mini module: Talking about sex

Talking about sex mini module
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We all know that talking to your children about sex and relationships can be a daunting task, which is why we’ve come up with some tips and ideas to help you start the talking.

Talking about relationships, sex and responsibilities gives your child the knowledge and confidence to face important choices in the future. But there is no right time to start talking about sex and relationships because every child is difference. You will know when it’s the right time for your child.

“I had it all planned – all the sentences ready about the importance of love and respect but I never said it. Then they grew up. I missed my chance and I regret that – I’m their dad. By talking I would have shown I was there for them.”

Time to talk sex and relationships

Where possible, it’s important for both parents to be involved in talking about these issues, and dads need to be able to communicate openly with their children, so that they know they can turn to you for information, guidance and support. There may even be some questions they feel more comfortable asking you, rather than their own mum or someone else, and it is important that they know you are ok with them approaching you.

“I got a book out of the library and said, ‘Look son, you don’t want me to tell you how it’s all done, but there’s a book. If you have a question them come and ask me or your mum’.

Talking about sex – tips and hints

It’s not just about talking about sex. Young people say that they want to talk about relationships, responsibilities and values. Not just about biology. It’s good to know that young people themselves are saying that they want their parents to be the ones they talk to about these issues. And research shows that when a teenager feels confident and knowledgeable through talking with their parents, they are more likely to delay the age of first sex.

Everyone has different thoughts about sex; deciding how to approach the issue with your children can be a touchy subject and can even lead to disagreements between you and their mother, your partner or other family involved in their upbringing. Remember that this is normal and the most important part is being able to discuss the subject openly and calmly, and to encourage your children to consider all the options that are available to them, from deciding when the time is right through to where to get contraception from.

“Talk to your children about sex – and everything else! It’s better that they learn it from you than in the playground at school.”

Videos


Talking teenage sex

Not sure how to start that tricky conversation about safe sex? Watch Suzie Hayman discuss how you can open up communication with your teen and tackle that often dreaded talk with ease.



Talking relationships

What do you do when your teen says they want their boyfriend/girlfriend over to stay? Don't know how you would handle the situation? Watch Suzie talk through how you can approach the subject without breaking into an argument.



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